Ask An Escort; Trisha has been an escort in Nanaimo for 7 years now:
How did you become one of the most successful escorts in Nanaimo?
My husband served in Afghanistan with the Marines and was wounded for life over there. Of course, we get some compensation from the government but it was never enough and still isn’t. We have 3 kids to feed, so I was forced to start doing something. Add to this, my husband was wounded in a way that means we can no longer have an active sex life. I didn't want to have an affair so, me becoming an erotic massage girl was sort of an idea that we came up with together. It kills two-birds-with-one-stone.
Do you remember your first booking and did you let the client have sex with you?
Yes, I still see the guy to this day, actually. He's a lovely chap. Married with two kids but she doesn't pay him much attention, I don't think. I've been seeing him maybe once a month for over 6 years now. He's probably paid me enough to buy several medium-sized family cars over the years. I'm an independent escort in Nanaimo now and he still keeps coming to see me after I left the escort agency.
Did you have any sexual encounters with your first booking?
Yes, the full-works. He wanted full intimacy. I'm glad that he did too. When I was first starting, some of the experienced girls there told me that guys sometimes don't want a full sexual encounter. I was praying that this guy did. I wanted to get the first one out of the way - like ripping a plaster off super-quick. I just wanted to get it done so that I could see there was nothing to fear. So yeah, I lost my Nanaimo escort girls virginity with my first client.
How did it feel the first time having sex for money?
Easy! I couldn't believe I'd made that much money for such a simple thing. It made me wonder why I'd slogged away in an office job through my 20s and 30s. We'd be in a much better financial situation today if I'd just got on my back and spread my legs sooner. Backpage escorts in Nanaimo are seriously easy money for any girl that's not held back by judgments or insecurities.
After being an escort in Nanaimo for so long, do you still enjoy sex?
Most escorts I know still enjoy sex, and I'm no different. It's one of the reasons I started doing it and agreed with my husband, remember. So yes, I do get a nice little fix from it and it's nice to satisfy and be satisfied by a man. If I didn't enjoy it, I don't know if I could keep doing it - although the money is crazy good, as I've said.
What is the most requested service you get from clients at your Nanaimo escort agencies?
A lot of guys do like me to play the dominant role. I think that's maybe because I'm a bit older. I know a lot of the younger girls get requests for the ''girlfriend experience''. I get that too. But, yeah, definitely a lot of guys requesting me to be a dom and punish them. We get lots of toys out and have some fun.
Are there any Shemale escorts in Nanaimo?
At present, I don't personally know any shemales at the Nanaimo massage parlours where I have friends (I'm an independent escort now remember and work from a private apartment). However, in my 6 years in the game, I have come across some shemale escorts in Nanaimo, yes.
Do you regret this career choice at all?
I regret not becoming an Nanaimo escort earlier in life. So, no. I love it. Back when I was at university I actually did some nightclub podium dancing and I remember getting my tits out a few times. That was the closest I got to backpage for many years. I should've pursued it more - because I even loved doing that. I should've got the hint. Anyway, the last 6 years have been fantastic and I now serve a niche in the mature market. I don't see myself giving this up soon.
What should a girl do if she's looking to become a female escort in Nanaimo?
Get in your local escort directory and gather some contact details for the various escort agencies and massage parlours there. Make some calls, do some visits and pick an agency that you feel comfortable with. I think that's so important. There are some bad eggs out there so you don't want to let that taint your whole view of the industry. The massage parlour I started at was fantastic and the people there are still my friends today. Pick the right place to work at and you'll see just how easy and fun this work is. Also, try to get some mentors - girls who've got some experience and can look after you. The faster you learn, the faster you'll earn.
Would you let your daughter become an escort?
Yes, absolutely. Especially if she wanted to become a Nanaimo escort because I know the best places for her to work and the best people to get connected with. This is an empowering industry for young women as long as you maintain control of your time, your money and your body. The moment you start saying yes to things you aren't comfortable with is when it becomes a slippery slope. So, yes, I'd strongly encourage my daughter to do it and I'd coach her how to get the most cash possible out of her time.
What's next for you? How long will you continue being a sexy blonde escort in Nanaimo?
No sign of me stopping. I'm still horny and my husband and I still have relatively young children to look after. Car payments need to be made and the mortgage won't pay itself. I'll keep going for as long as there are men willing to pay for the privilege of touching my body, basically. That's how I see it. Why stop? What else am I going to do that pays so well?
My life as an Nanaimo escort; Natasha is a 25yo female escort in Nanaimo who works from her own apartment in the city centre:
How did you become one of the top blonde escorts in Nanaimo?
Top? Haha, I'm not sure I am. Starting as an escort in general? I Had too. My boyfriend walked out on me and left me with 2 young kids to feed. Working in the beauty salon that I was at just wasn't going to cut it. I'd make more money just claiming benefits. I wanted to give my kids a great start in life so I needed to find a way to make serious cash. Erotic massage girl work pays me a couple of grand a week cash. There's nowhere else that I can get that sort of money
Do you remember your first booking?
I've been doing this 6 years now and yeah, my first booking is still memorable. It's funny, I remember walking away from the Nanaimo massage parlours that night thinking, ''damn, the money is amazing but I can't imagine doing that with a new guy every day''. The reason I felt like that was because of the emotional investment and time investment. It was like I'd been some guy's girlfriend for the last few hours. It was emotionally draining. I felt like I needed a couple of days off afterwards because I really got into the role and gave it everything. Now, I've learnt how to be sincere and please the client without getting so emotionally and physically drained by the end of the encounter. Being a Nanaimo escort is like going to the gym. You get more used to the workouts and build resistance after a while.
Did you have any sexual encounters with your first booking?
Yes, as just said. He wanted the full girlfriend experience. I spent a couple of hours with him just kinda talking and being close. Only at the end of the session did we have full sex.
How did it feel the first time having sex for money as a female escort in Nanaimo?
Great. I remember looking at the wad of cash on my kitchen table. It was about 1 am on a Monday or Tuesday night. My kids were sleeping and the babysitter had just left. I went into their rooms and kissed them goodnight. It was an amazing feeling looking at that money on the table. I knew that everything was going to be alright from then on. My children would never go without anything.
After being a Nanaimo escort for so long, do you still enjoy sex?
Yes. I didn't get into it for the sex but I must admit, there are some clients that I enjoy seeing and have good experiences with. I've always felt it very hard to cum - even in my personal life - so it's extremely rare for me to orgasm with a client. But it has happened. My personal sex life has suffered because of my Nanaimo back page escorts in Nanaimo life. Obviously I'm not really interested in the likes of dating clients or Tinder and such. If I'm going to have sex in my personal life then I want it to be with someone I can see a future with. At the moment, I'm not really worried about meeting anyone. I have my two kids and I'm doing my own thing. Maybe in another 4 or 5 years, I might change my mind and start looking for a life partner. Maybe I won't still be in the game by then.
What is the most requested service you get from clients to the girls at your Nanaimo escort agency?
If you look at the online escorts you should see a clue. All of the girls list 'the girlfriend experience' as the first service on their profiles. It's certainly my most requested service too. I don't think that's unique to British Columbia escorts. I have some friends who work in Toronto in the escort girl game and they say the same. Clients are just lonely guys. They're not bad or vagrants. We're talking about hard-working professional men, most of who are married. They just want some intimacy. Maybe their wives aren't interested in them anymore and they're just looking for someone to show them some care and attention.
Are there any tranny escorts in Nanaimo?
Yes, my best friend at the massage parlour in Nanaimo is a shemale. There are quite a few in the city I think. Most are of South American origin and they have that darker look to them. My friend is the same. I know that they do very well for money and generally have a very steady client base of regulars. I think, on average, they make more money than normal girls, actually. My friend is a little older and doesn't work so much anymore but still makes great money. Ladyboys and tranny’s in British Columbia are becoming very popular with straight guys.
Do you regret this career choice at all?
Absolutely not. What else would I be doing? I told you, I was working in a beauty salon before this for barely over minimum wage per hour. I had no skills or education. No other career could have made me the money I've made over the last 6 years. We are talking more than a 100k a year - cash. I'm not saying every girl will make that. Some might even make more! But that's what I've made and there is no way I could've done that any other way. My kids have a good childhood thanks to their mother working as an escort girl. I've also been able to spend more time with them than if I'd been working all of the hours under the sun at another job. I'll probably go into independent escorts in Nanaimo . This will give me even more freedom and more money. We'll see. Working at the Nanaimo massage parlour is so easy and I've become very comfortable there with lots of friends. For a new girl just getting into the game, I recommend you go try a few different escort agencies and then find the right massage parlour for you. All have their own characters. Don't judge the industry on one massage parlour.
Should brothels in Nanaimo be legalised, and would the girls that work in them be more protected under the law?
In this generation, sexual desire in men is increasing to the extent that it seems to be difficult for a woman to satisfy a man. And with the hope of getting satisfaction sexually, most men prefer to be unstable with just one or two partners. Sex between two genders has gone from the engagement of two opposite sexes that loves each other too; just meeting of two genders to satisfy each other for that moment of sexual aroused. That is, most people are no longer interested in having sex with whom they love but whom they believe can make them happy sexually. With the awake of this, beauty and other quality attraction that could spring up love in man are no longer essential but much interest is put in any opposite sex that can satisfy the desire. Age, height, weight, shape, colour and other qualities are longer considered by many as long as they can get what they want.
What type of girl becomes an escort inNanaimo?
Most men are ready to spend their money to satisfy their sexual desire and to make the matter compatible, many ladies or women require money and in which the easiest way for them (out of working with their hands) to get it, is to offer their bodies to those who want to satisfy their sexual arousal in exchange for cash. First or in generation back, it is shameful to be used for a sexual tool by men based on one's need and because of that, it is a personal engagement that is done secretly. But nowadays, it is fast-growing and now involving groups of people or females coming together to make prostitution as a Job. It has grown to the extent that there are many young teen escorts in Nanaimo around the cities for this job. Such acts might become hereditary to the next generation which might later be difficult to control or stop.
Should female escorts in Nanaimo be allowed to work in pairs for safety?
Of course, It will allow men to satisfy their sexual arousal without much force or violence on their partner. This will hereby relieve women of sexual stress from their partner. It will reduce the level of criminal offence committed by men in order to satisfy their sexual urge. It will give British Columbia escorts involved legal rights as the same with others in society. It will save the women involved from illegal prosecution. Even though there are positive and negative effects of legalising brothels, the risk of making it lawful is very high to that of making it illegal. But it is up to the decision of the citizens to vote and determine what they want and create what they want their nation or environment to look like.
Is working for Nanaimo escort agencies easy money for students?
Students face more financial pressures than ever. Increasing numbers of universities are charging the maximum fee status of $18,000 for their courses, and with institutions offering little aid in the face of rising rents and stagnant maintenance loans, mounting levels of debt have been found to be one of the main factors behind the high levels of stress and anxiety keeping students awake at night. Given such pressures and their impact on wellbeing, it's not surprising that many have made the connection between financial burdens and the number of students involved in adult work, which has more than doubled in the last three years. However, it's not always a story of desperate, cash-strapped students resorting to prostitution in order to support themselves. Sex workers and Nanaimo escorts have diversified beyond the traditional services of sex and porn, as sugaring, webcam models, travel companionship and selling nude pics on social media have gained greater popularity amongst both consumers and clients as well as students. Rather than FSSW (Full Service Sex Work), students involved in broadcasting yourself to men can stream live or pre-recorded content from behind bedroom doors. From sugar daddy matchmaking websites to content streaming platforms, myriad competing websites bring students into their networks with just a few clicks. Whether it's paid-for cuddling sessions or selling used bathwater, the power of the internet is swiftly blurring the defining parameters of sex work. What's for certain is that with the promise of quick money from minimal effort – even without the requirement for physical contact – it's never been easier for students to get involved.
Are sugar babies asking for money from their sugar daddies the same as Nanaimo escorts asking for money from their clients?
Sugaring, in particular, has experienced quite a growth in popularity among students. As part of a standard sugaring service, a wealthy (typically older, and most often male) participant (known as a sugar 'daddy/mommy') treats a less well-off (typically younger, attractive and most often female) sugar baby to regular dates, along with material compensation either per meet or in the form of a monthly 'allowance' in an ongoing contact (known as an 'arrangement'). Allowances can range from paying a few energy bills to sums of money which could blow any bartending wage out of the water. Websites bringing together sugar parents and babies - bright with images of suited silver foxes draped in glamourous young women, advertising 'elite' dating and 'mentoring' - look and feel much the same as the average dating website, with catalogues of profiles to choose from. There's even a market for the Girlfriend Experience', a type of arrangement which prioritises 'genuine' romantic connection over solely sexual hook-ups, offering role-playing as a couple, complete with dates, flirting and emotional support – intimacy on demand, for a price. Some offer opportunities for international travel, as 'successful' members seek beautiful teen escorts in Nanaimo for all-expenses-paid trips to exotic places. So rather than just the appeal of easy cash (and a lot of it), diverse sex work avenues such as sugaring are presented as offering a whole lot more: the mystique of a rich, older 'sponsor', empowerment, and even the ability to be your own boss, managing your own time, commitments – and boundaries.
Do all escorts in Nanaimo offer sexual services to their clients?
Such forms of online and web-facilitated sex work may not involve standing on street corners, but behind the glamour and self-proclaimed perks still lies a great deal of risk. The variety of options available gives the illusion of control where the student, as the provider, chooses the services they provide and the level of engagement. However, Nanaimo escorts only have to offer sexual encounters if they feel comfortable and related activities are still part of an unregulated industry, where easy money comes at a cost – whether repetitional, emotional or physical damage. For one, once a name and face are up on a site, the internet has a very long memory. A couple of embarrassing, drunken photos on social media might be forgiven by a future employer, but a student's webcam session deep throating a banana, readily available on a webcam platforms, might not be so easy to overlook. Transporting arrangements out of the virtual world and into reality has its own catalogue of risks. Although it might seem like interacting with clients online initially would provide more of an opportunity to vet and clearly establish boundaries before a first meeting, there is still no way to guarantee who you might be speaking to, with a very literal screen to hide behind. Sites hosting activities such as sugaring often claim to screen religiously for escorting activity and identity fraud, but there's only so much a website can do to risk checking potential clients. Online, it's very easy to lie about who you are and how much money you're willing to pay – and many do. As the industry is unregulated, operating in a very grey legal area, there is no obligation for clients to stick to any contract, whether regarding boundaries or payments. At the very least, there is the phenomenon of the 'Splenda daddy' – 'fake sugar' clients who enjoy the service but refuse to pay. At worst, amplified by the power of the purse strings, coercion might push potential sugar babies into doing something they don't want to do.
Can a marriage remain monogamous with so many sexy Nanaimo escorts and Asian girls working in British Columbia massage parlours on offer?
Monogamy as a cornerstone of a healthy marriage - often the only cornerstone - is now an outdated concept. Many people are in polyamorous situations, with multiple partners, many couples enjoy threesomes or ‘open’ relationships, and there are now several shows on Netflix that feature ‘thruples’ (monogamous’ relationships of three people). People exist on a spectrum, and we all have different needs that change over time. What is important for a relationship is trust, communication and compromise. massage parlours in Nanaimo, like all other internet services, is just that - a service. If you or your partner is willing to break the relationship’s trust, fail to communicate or compromise - shutting down massage parlours (or indeed, all dating sites) will do nothing to prevent that.
Is it the fault of the wife that so many married men are visiting massage girls in Nanaimo?
Like ‘blaming the other woman’ people love to blame the sexy Thai girls that work in Nanaimo massage parlours for the actions of an unfaithful spouse. It’s time that stops. Massage parlours is but a tool, and how people choose to use the tool is entirely up to them. Instead, let’s look at the potential for sites like massage parlours to be used by people in healthy relationships to expand their definition of what a relationship means, in a way that works for all the people involved.
Is it because men get bored having sex with the same woman that they visit Nanaimo escorts?
When the excitement goes away, men will look to get that back again, in whatever way they can. When you really think about it, spending money for companionship isn’t that bad. Some might even argue that men have paid for you to be with them; dinner, flowers, theatre tickets, romantic getaways all cost money. Could it be that the escorts in Nanaimo are just more upfront with it? Pay this much money and I will be there for this much time for this activity. Sure, the obvious British Columbiament will arise “But, that’s because he was wooing me”, yup he was and with the intention of you between the sheets too. So what if there is more than just companionship from the escort or the Nanaimo massage girls, what if they have sex – surely that’s cheating – right? You remember that analogy about the TV series earlier – if we were to use that to describe your sex life, when you start out together everything is new, fresh and super exciting much like the TV series. But after a while the oral sex becomes a “birthday treat”, the number of sexual positions dwindle down into missionary only – you might as well just watch the same episode of the same series over and over again it’s gonna last longer because that sex life just got really boring.
Why waste time trying to meet women in bars and suffer rejection when the British Columbia escorts and the local massage girls will never reject you?
Before the Internet to get a Friday night date with a Nanaimo escort you had a few options, you could take a blonde escort to dinner, you could go for an erotic massage with a sexy young Asian massage parlour in Nanaimo and you could search the adult personals for women looking for a quick fling in the back seat of a car. A huge issue with the traditional way of asking people out is that it affects people with mental health problems such as anxiety. It is not easy to ask in person, especially a sex worker or call girl and an individual may find it more comfortable to ask behind a screen as it eliminates the initial person to person humiliation if they do get rejected or if they are too scared to ask. Believe me, I have been in that boat way too many times. This may be the reason that so many guys are now happily hiring Nanaimo escorts as their preferred sexual encounters. Why fuck around with girls in bars that reject you, when you are assured of any amount of sexual satisfaction, in any number of positions, with any number of the sexiest girls from all around the world. For men today it makes perfect sense to have a girlfriend experience with escorts and call girls in Nanaimo. Speaking of humiliation and rejection; they are another example of factors that are somewhat eradicated when asking for a date online with Nanaimo massage girls over the internet as the individual you are asking does not know who you are and lowers the percentage of humiliation you are initially feeling but thanks to the internet, it does not last that long.