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Are Gillingham escorts the new norm for single men to form permanent long-term relationships?

For the vast majority, being without their mobile phone or some sort of electronic device for even a day sounds like torture. Our digital dependence has made life seem not worth living unless it’s captured, posted, shared, and liked, then there are all our digital applications making even the simplest of tasks like shopping, getting a taxi, directions, or food even easier. Pretty much everything we could possibly need can be obtained at the mere touch of a button that some of us can’t even remember how we used to survive before the introduction of our all-knowing, all-seeing, singing, and dancing digital aids. It would appear that the same is also true with how we date, find new love, and form long-term relationships nowadays.

According to a recent poll, couples are now more likely than ever to find love and form a relationship through online escorts in Gillingham than through any other avenue with statistics from xlamma predicting that more than half of all couples will have met online by the year 2031, which indicates that by 2037 most babies will be ‘e-babies’ (babies whose parents met online).

For the old romantics among us (and those from certain generations) who still think finding love online seems clinical, mechanical, and potentially dangerous, (we all have that one friend who still says things like ‘you could be talking to a psychopath or serial killer for all you know’), these statistics are quite depressing. But for those who frequently use apps like Tinder, Bumble, or Hinge and cannot imagine reverting back to meeting massage girls in Gillingham the old fashioned way (or have no idea what that actually means), these statistics aren’t surprising in the slightest. But why? When did online escorts become so popular that it took over other modes of finding love?

Despite whether you agree or like the prevalence of escorts apps or not, escorts culture has always evolved and changed with the times. Gone are the days where your girlfriends were the only ones to kiss and cuddle, today's Gillingham escorts offer the best girlfriend experience that many say is far better than any traditional girlfriend could give. Others for you or men had to make the first move or you paired up with someone for status over love. Mostly gone too are the days of marrying your high school sweetheart or being approached in your local pub or responding to a lonely hearts advertisement in the local newspaper.

As we gain more and more freedom, so too do our views on love and relationships, case in point sex before marriage, divorce, and bisexuality are no longer frowned upon, so it isn’t really surprising that finding love via an app on our phones is as popular as it is given how much we now rely on them. One thing that has remained the same though is that actually finding adult contacts in Gillingham where you can find local women looking for married and single men, has often involved help from an external factor (be it parents, free ads, friends, or being forced to sit next to someone for an entire year during maths class by a teacher). It seems we have always needed help meeting new people the simple and honest reason for this being that meeting in real life is hard! Whether this is because of our schedules, lifestyle, confidence, culture, circumstance connecting with new people is difficult.

But it seems especially hard now because now we are global, we are in demand, we are working in different time zones, life is stressful and 24/7 hectic. We have less and less time for the things we actually enjoy doing, we can go weeks without seeing or talking to the people we actually already know where the hell is there time to meet and properly connect with anyone new anymore?

Enter online escorts (because we are on our phones pretty much all the time now anyway).

Easy to use apps connecting us to thousands of new people taking all that stress away. We set our parameters and in theory, will find our ‘perfect match,’ we get to talk before meeting massage girls in Gillingham to ensure there is common ground and an actual face-to-face meeting is worth making time for. Then if it doesn’t work out, we don’t even need to waste time. We don't have mourning because there is a whole database full of singles just waiting for us to swipe right on them.

Believe it or not online escorts and escorts apps have been around long before the likes of Tinder, Bumble et al came on the scene circa 2013. Sites like Grindr and Scruff have been uniting single gay men since 2009 indicating that escorts apps have some staying power and won’t be going anywhere anytime soon, but what is next for escorts then, are the statistics right?

Covid-19 scuppered most predictions (and ruined the hopes of old romantics everywhere who anticipated that someday someone might just pluck up the courage and step away from behind the protective veil of their smartphone and approach them with an in-person cheesy chat-up line and the offer of a beverage). Now people are scared more than ever before of face-to-face interaction especially with people outside their social bubble.

During the lockdown, despite not being able to physically meet, action on escorts apps went through the roof Tinder boasted having a record 3 billion swipes one weekend early lockdown while Bumble saw the use of their apprise by 93% between March 13th-27th. Many Gillingham escorts and escort agency girls applications added new features like video calling so their users could still connect safely and have virtual dates rather than just messaging back and forth like before, if anything the lack of sex has forced us to be online even more and further into this virtual kind of reality.

So if a global pandemic isn’t enough to thwart users of online escorts in Gillingham whereby users cannot actually meet in person, it is pretty clear they are here to stay as part of our new normal. As long as technology and our reliance on it continue to evolve together, so too will how we seek and connect with one another online escorts in Kent, ultimately forming long-lasting relationships.